Saturday, October 24, 2009

(dis)Comfort Zone

I'm not a terribly outgoing person. That's not completely true. It would be more appropriate to say that I'm not usually in social situations that give me an opportunity to meet new people. Once I'm in those situations, I tend to do well. When I get to know people, they usually like me.

So why does a person who is generally likable so apt to avoid social interaction? I don't know. Ask my friends and they'll tell you that I'm almost impossible to get to go out. But once I am out, I have a blast. This is where Twitter has come in, much to my pleasant surprise.

I've been introduced to people via Twitter that I feel like I know better than some of the folks I interact with every day. I get to communicate as I desire and am given the chance to use my wit at my discretion. Levity in brevity, I call it. Over the last three months I've become fond of my new pals. I really like my Twitter friends and, ironically, want to meet some of them in real life now.

That's right, Twitter has helped me warm up to people that I might otherwise have never met. Now I want to interact with them face-to-face. And, flatteringly enough, have had three people indicate their desire to meet me. I hesitate to call it surreal, but it is definitely unfamiliar ground. It is out of my Comfort Zone, for sure. In fact, it is solidly in my (dis)Comfort Zone. But, I have decided that I will do it. I will try to meet some of the people that I talk to on Twitter. IRL.

First, I will meet @kiwiberry, since we have gone from Twitter to Facebook to texting to talking on the phone. She saw a tweet from me on a trending topic and re-tweeted it. I saw that she lived close by and we started talking. Now we Skype daily and will possibly meet up at Star Wars: In Concert.

From there, who knows? Stay tuned for updates on the meet ups, or tweetups, as I believe they are called. We live in a world that seems to focus on converting analog to digital. I hope that by converting these digital relationships to analog, I can remain human, if not become a better one.

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